Who I Am
Hi! I am Sheila Darling, your Divorce Coach. I am laser focused on helping you navigate the mental and emotional side of your divorce. You might also call me a self-love igniter, happiness guide or badass relationship guru. I help people who long to feel understood and comfortable in their own skin, but fear change and vulnerability. I motivate them to trust themselves and overcome fear so that they can be their own incredible, confident, badass selves. I help the people I work with to accept who they are, and believe that they deserve to live the life they desire.
What I Do
I work with couples who are contemplating ending their marriages, those that have decided to begin the process of divorce or separation and those who are divorced and have some lingering emotional concerns. Some of the things we focus on are Positivity, Confidence, Inspiration, Parenting, Life Transitions, Boundaries, Career, Family, Relationships, Self Care, Connections/Friendships. I will help you build the life you desire and share your passion for that life with the ones you love!
I am an active participant in coaching. I am not a nod my head and repeat what you said back to you kind of person. I give honest feedback and help you to receive it and work through it. I am casual and straightforward. I won’t waste your time.
My clients thank me for being honest and open with them and pointing out things that may be difficult to hear but important to recognize. I am their biggest supporter when change is necessary and I utilize self disclosure when appropriate to show you that I have been there and that change is possible and empowering.
Real change happens when we allow our real selves to show up. I will get to know you deeply and uncover your innate strengths and then utilize those strengths to help you see the joy in every day and your power to make and live an incredible life.
There can be joy in every moment. I help you to uncover your joy and live your life with mindful intention.
Regardless of what you share with me, I show that I support and care for you. Often things come up in coaching that are based in fear or shame. I help you recognize that sharing and dealing with feelings around fear and shame is an empowering exercise and will set you free.
I know from my own path through divorce and from working with hundreds of families, that it is truly possible to wake up every day and be a total badass; no fear, no worry, only excitement for the day ahead, and the opportunity to live an incredible life, the life that I decided to live, surrounded by people that I love and respect and who love and respect me.
We are all imperfect. When we try to live up to standards that society puts on us or we put on ourselves, we will come up short. Embracing our imperfections and using those things to show that we are unique, while being loving and compassionate to ourselves, is healing.
Contact Me Today
I believe that every divorce has the potential to be Incredible. My vision is to change the way we view divorce and to heal those who are in the depths of this life changing event so that they can live their lives with clarity, love and a deep understanding of who they are and that they are truly Incredible. That’s why I hope you schedule an appointment with me today.